Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Living it up!

Forgiveness- as the word speaks in itself has it own different meanings for different people.
One of the most difficult task for a less stronger person to do is this, forgiving someone. We tend to find out all the possible unwanted remarks and making them feel disgraced. Well, i dedicate this blog to all those people who feel often the same and also to the people who have the habit of following this selfish act of living up for themselves.
One of the very important and necessary part of our lives is to do this job of lending other's our smile. I have many people in my life who literally monitorize their lives and doing things which would make them the happiest. In this due course,we tend to forget that how much is it costing us?
I know, u might be thinking, if am adhering to somewhat of sacrifices......but its not that! It is also one of the prospective parts of our lives, but sacrifices are ought to be made for people who well deserve it and who have done the same for you as well.
I have been experiencing a whole lot of changes in the past few months and specially last year!
Someone had been a very important part of my life and before i could make the same realize to him, he was gone!
We experience such things sooner or later and start reciprocating the same way. If a person hurts you, we want to hurt him back.....if someone makes you cry....we feel he doesnt deserve to be in your life, if someone dislikes us, we want to hate him back!
Even i have a person about whom i have been thinking a lot lately and kinda changing my feelings for him. If he hurts me, i would still care him back.....if he gifts me tears, i'll still give him my smile....if he hates me, i would still love him back!
Believe me readers, its a wonderful feeling to do so......just stop thinking about your own feelings and thoughts...find out people in this world who may be more hurted than you and still have the courage to live on.
This i would like to share this from my own personal experience- when we are hurt, we tend to maintain distances from the person who has given us a dent in our heart....but this is wrong...
W e do say that Time is the Best Healer, but believe me.....staying far doesnt help....it only increases the curiosity and makes us eager to be with that person.
All im trying to say is that is ----- Start living up for others everyone. Even if someone is the opposite to you, try finding that commonness....Life gets a meaning !!!
So from this point im busy living it up for others and ofcourse loving myself :)
and also the person about whom im thinking a lot lately(as i mentioned)....i would always do things that would make you happy !!! So smile ... !

Love,

Sneha.

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